NLP works on process, form, pattern and structure
rather than content. It is based on tenants such as:
Every behaviour has a positive intent and
is geared to towards adaptation
People make the best choice available to
them at any given moment as everything we do makes
sense in the moment we do it.
People are not their behaviour.
For things to change, first I must change.
If you always do what you always done, then
you will always get what you have always got.
If what you are doing is not working, do
something else.
If it is possible in the world it is possible
for me, it is only a question of how.
Law of requisite variety applies so in all
interactions among people, the person with the most
flexibility and variation in behaviour can control
the outcome of the interaction.
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